Today is the due date for the first baby we lost—Scarlett. To be honest, it’s simply too hard for me to remember all four due dates
Are you experiencing a fresh wave of pandemic grief? Suffering deserves the dignity of recognition At the beginning of the pandemic I wrote and
I see you—the one flattened by the words “I can’t find a heartbeat.” I see you—the one trying and waiting and wondering how much longer you can
How are you feeling this Mother’s Day? Do you feel forgotten? Invisible? Lonely? Do you feel sad? Angry? Hurt? Holidays can hurt after miscarriage, stillbirth, and other
They couldn’t find a heartbeat and several rounds of ultrasounds confirmed she had passed away. It all happened so fast and, truthfully, I didn’t believe them at
No matter how you feel, there is grace enough for you and for your own particular journey of motherhood. You can do this. You can feel what you
Have you ever felt like Jesus led you somewhere and then took off once he got there? Me too. I imagine this is how the disciples
Deep breaths. I know—this is hard. Sometimes we see these days coming and the lead up is harder than the day itself. Sometimes it’s more sneaky and
“Why would you let this happen?” “Don’t you care about me?” “Why didn’t you save my baby?” In the wake of miscarriage we’re pummeled with questions—questions about
You made it. It’s been one year since you lost your baby. Did you have days where you wondered how life could go on as you once
You knew it was coming and yet it kind of snuck up on you, too, didn’t it? That first baby shower invitation since losing your baby. It’s