Books by Adriel Booker

Tethered to Hope available for preorder

Author's note:

I wrote Tethered to Hope over many years during what could be described as my own dark night of the soul. I often felt untethered, but I grew to learn that no matter the darkness, no matter the upheaval, no matter the ambiguity or liminality or changing nature of the ground below or around you—the quiet kindness of God can be found within the cracks and fissures of what you once believed or knew to be true, even in the space between who you once were and who you’re becoming.

We are tethered to hope because we’re tethered to God. The tether I’m referring to is not a leash to reign us in—something limiting or restrictive—but an umbilical cord that keeps us connected to the mother-heart of God who gives and sustains life. When you are tethered to hope, no heartache can undo the tether; no noise can undermine the grace of being found in God’s care; no confusion can render powerless the hand of God who is able to steady us.

My experience of being tethered to hope mirrors my hope for you—that you will be able to enfold yourself in this same message as you read: you’re already tethered.
Adriel Booker
Author, Speaker, Curator
Discover how to reframe the in-between as a tool of deep spiritual transformation

Connect with God's kindness in the aftermath of experiencing sudden shock, change, or loss
Tethered to Hope: The Quiet Kindness of God in Crisis, Change, and the Spaces in Between by Adriel Booker

A kind companion for the disorienting liminal space between crisis and change:

When the initial shock waves begin to settle after a job loss, a diagnosis, a relationship breakdown, a season of grief or intense change, or a jarring shift in faith or identity, we find ourselves in the crisis after the crisis – the aftermath of whatever it is that has splayed our hearts wide open. These lonely, liminal spaces between who we were and who we’re becoming are disorienting and confusing. It can be hard to hold on to hope when our bearings feel illusive.

In the exhausting tension between here and there where pain and confusion feel loud, Adriel Booker helps you perceive God’s quiet kindness that has been there all along, hidden in plain sight on the underside of crisis, change, and all the spaces in between.

Adriel lights a candle in your darkness and companions you as you adjust to the low light and begin to apprehend the reality that you’re already tethered to hope–even when you feel anything but.

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Endorsements for Tethered to Hope:

“This book is a companion for the thresholds we cannot name, guiding us to stand in the doorway between what has ended and what has not yet begun. With language both tender and unflinching, Adriel Booker reminds us that our vocation is less a destination than a courageous dwelling in the questions that change us.”
Scott Erickson
Scott Erickson
Author of In the Low and Honest Advent
“Adriel Booker has long been a trusted guide in my life, a kind friend, and a woman whose wisdom points me to wholeness and to its source, Jesus. In Tethered to Hope, Booker offers practical reflections to remember our roots after crisis, filled with questions, stories, and consolations that remind us God sees us, even when we can’t yet see our way forward.”
KJ Ramsey
K.J. Ramsey
Licensed therapist and author of The Place Between Our Pains and The Book of Common Courage
“For those looking for hope, too many writers offer only feel-good bromides or pretty platitudes. This book is different. Combining diligent study with practical experience, Adriel Booker tackles hard questions head-on, seeking not so much to emerge triumphant but to remind readers of God’s goodness and unfailing love. As one who has suffered greatly and wrestled mightily with her own faith, Adriel is a kind and wise guide for all who need to be reminded that their hope is not in vain.”
Richella Parham
Richella Parham
Author of Mythical Me
“Anyone who finds themselves in a season of transition—or in that liminal space between the already and the not yet (which, in truth, is all of us)—will find something here. I certainly did when this book came to me. Instead of bracing against change or numbing out, Booker invites us into presence: to practice curiosity and courage, to normalize complex feelings toward the church, to welcome doubt, and to acknowledge the uniquely difficult era we’re all living through. This beautiful book was written over years; Booker lived what she wrote, and that slow, intentional work makes it both deeply relatable and profoundly human. I can’t overstate how much I needed it.”
Sara Billups
Sara Billups
Author of Nervous Systems and Orphaned Believers
“Tethered to Hope is a steady light in seasons of disorientation, grief, and spiritual transition. With poetic vulnerability and theological depth, Adriel Booker invites us to name our pain, embrace our humanity, and rediscover the quiet kindness of God in the spaces we often try to rush through. This book doesn’t offer easy answers; it offers companionship, courage, and the reminder that we are already held. A must-read for anyone navigating the in-between.”
Steve Mickel
Steve Mickel
Pastor and author of Walking in the Dark
“Tethered to Hope offers us language to move through grief, doubt, and uncertainty with a fierce sense of hope. This book meets readers in the liminal space and provides the timely reminder that we are already tethered.”
Dorina Lazo Gilmore-Young
Dorina Lazo Gilmore-Young
Author of Run Walk Soar and Breathing Through Grief
“Walking through seasons of transition, as we all must from time to time, often feels so lonely. In Tethered to Hope, we are given a gentle companion for that long road between one place and the next. Adriel Booker offers us all the comfort of a trusted guide, the wisdom of someone who has walked the road, and the hope of one who has done deep work and come out the other side. In so doing, she helps us alleviate the loneliness we experience in liminality. Tethered to Hope is not full of easy answers, and that makes it all the richer—what a gift.”
Jessica Herberger
Jessica Herberger
Author of Peace in the Dark, Life Surrendered, and Break Bread Together
“Adriel’s written and spoken words have always been a favorite source of help and hope for me amid my own journey of navigating grief, so it was no surprise to me that Tethered to Hope is one of the most powerful resources I’ve read in this season. In this book, Adriel reminds us of the invitation that accompanies heartache: to ask ourselves how we will choose to steward our pain. I’m so grateful for the truth Tethered to Hope adds to the conversation of hope and healing. Thank you, Adriel, for this important work.”
Nicole Zasowski
Nicole Zasowski
Marriage and family therapist and author of What If It’s Wonderful?
"As a Marriage and Family Therapist, I think this is one of the best resources out there for women facing the struggle of infertility and miscarriage. As a woman who has walked through five miscarriages myself, this is the book I wish I had on my nightstand from the beginning."
Nicole Zasowski
Nicole Zasowski
Marriage and Family Therapist 
Grace Like Scarlett: Grieving with Hope after Miscarriage and Loss by Adriel Booker

Though one in four pregnancies ends in loss, miscarriage is shrouded in such secrecy and stigma that the woman who experiences it often feels deeply isolated, unsure how to process her grief. Her body seems to have betrayed her. Her confidence in the goodness of God is rattled. Her loved ones don’t know what to say. Her heart is broken. She may feel guilty, ashamed, angry, depressed, confused, or alone.

With vulnerability and tenderness, Adriel Booker shares intimate stories about her experiences with miscarriage to help you navigate your own grief and know you aren’t alone. She tackles complex questions about faith, suffering, and God’s will with sensitivity and clarity, devoid of religious clichés or pat answers. Ultimately, Adriel invites you to a wide-open place of grace, honesty, and genuine hope as you discover a redemption story unfolding in the shadows of your loss. She also includes practical resources for ways to help guide children through grief, advice on pregnancy after loss, and special sections for dads and loved ones.

Grace Like Scarlett will help you:
  • Better understand your grief and find language to help you talk about your experiences with others.
  • Examine the complexities of abstract or disenfranchised grief and the social or religious pressures that can contribute toward a short-circuited grieving process.
  • Dignify your grief experience and support you in your journey toward healing.
  • Examine grief, pain, and suffering from a Christian perspective by exploring biblical texts, the life of Jesus, and other figures from the Old and New Testaments.
  • Help you examine your faith and doubt in the aftermath of your grief, and provide you a safe space to ask hard questions. 
  • Help you find ways to honor and remember your baby’s life.
  • Leave you with practical resources to support healthy relationships with your spouse, children, friends, and church community in the wake of your loss.
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Endorsements for Grace Like Scarlett:

"Adriel writes with the authority of one who has endured suffering. She is a gifted teacher and a brave leader into the darker realms of faith. As she discusses the transformation that grief brings into our lives, she also acknowledges and then shoos away blame, comparison, false guilt, shame, and isolation. Though it's been years since I've experienced miscarriage, this book helped me remember and even shined a light into other areas of suffering that I hardly know how to address."
Amber Haines
Amber Haines
Author of Wild in the Hollow
"When I experienced the loss of a pregnancy I wanted two things in that place of pain. First, to know that I was not alone in it. Second, to believe there was hope. Adriel Booker offers both in Grace Like Scarlett. I wish I'd had this book years ago." --Holley Gerth, bestselling author of Fiercehearted and What Your Heart Needs for the Hard Days
Holley Gerth
Holley Gerth
Bestselling author of Fiercehearted
"Adriel Booker is a midwife and a griefwalker. In Grace Like Scarlett she takes the reader's hand, walks into the womb of loss, and sits down knee-to-knee with the brokenhearted. See this work if ever you've needed someone to go with you, be with you, hold you . . . and give voice to your speechless, aching places. This book is blood, air, food, and friend."
Erika Morrison
Author of Bandersnatch
"Adriel Booker's Grace Like Scarlett is a raw and challenging look at the impact of miscarriages not only in the life of every woman who has undergone such tragedy but also in communities of faith who seek to care for those who have lost. As a pastor, I find this book offers hope to those in my congregation who have and will walk through this valley. Read it and be ready to give copies to all those who need the encouragement this book provides."
Steve Mickel
Steve Mickel
Senior Pastor, Westside Church
"My heart has long been crying out for a book like this, and Grace Like Scarletis a beautiful answer to that prayer. Adriel Booker offers such clear, comforting, and compassionate words to the woman who is walking through deep loss. Not only will she find hope and consolation in these pages but it will feel like she's found an understanding friend. I highly recommend this powerful and practical resource for anyone who is experiencing the lonely grief of miscarriage."
Lisa Jacobson
Founder, Club31Women.com
"Adriel is one of the biggest-hearted people I know, and the purity of her conviction comes through with every word she writes. I know her story will touch the brokenhearted and stir the souls of those who need it most."
Tsh Oxenreider
Author of At Home in the World
"This powerful book is more than a book. It's a permission slip to feel what you need to feel. I've walked with several friends through their own miscarriages, and I have always wished that there was more that I could offer, do, or say. Grace Like Scarlett is 'the more.' This book is a wise and compassionate companion for moms who are grieving the child they never got to hold."
Jennifer Dukes Lee
Jennifer Dukes Lee
Author of It's All Under Control
"In Grace Like Scarlett, Adriel does the hard work of excavating her experience of excruciating loss. Her words keep perfect balance as they dance along edges--grief on one side, joy on the other--never falling into despair or the platitudes of easy faith. Unflinchingly honest, unquestionably authentic, and unashamedly human, Grace Like Scarlett is a must-read for anyone who has or will endure suffering--which is to say, all of us."
Seth Haines
Seth Haines
Author of Coming Clean
"Raw, real, and emotionally honest. Grace Like Scarlettis for anyone dealing with the heartbreak of losing a child or the messy and untamable nature of grief. In the end, Adriel Booker's story and message are about the journey to hope and joy. She lifts the chin of the tearstained face heavenward with the reminder that Jesus is making all things new and that beauty will rise from ashes. There are few resources for individuals or churches that I have found to be this succinct and powerful—I wholeheartedly recommend it."
Ken Wytsma
Ken Wytsma
Author of The Myth of Equality

Reader Reviews:

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“I bought your book when I miscarried the first time. It helped me so much. I read it again when we miscarried again. When I see or hear of someone miscarrying I always purchase this book and mail it to them with a card. I think I’ve literally probably bought 25 copies.” —Kayla

“I was given this book as a gift after my most recent miscarriage and I can honestly say that your book took me out of the deep hole I was in, I’ll forever be grateful for your book.” —Miranda
 

“I bought dozens of books after our miscarriage and this one was the most impactful. I couldn’t put it down. I’ve loved being able to gift it to some very special friends who have been walking the road of baby loss and I’ve heard how much Adriel’s words have impacted them in the midst of their heartache.” —Caitlin

“Adriel, I work at a faith-based pregnancy medical clinic and help women with reproductive loss. I use your book as our guide to walk alongside women after miscarriage. Thank you for writing this courageous, beautifully written book. It is true discipleship, not a bandage.” —Tanya

Grace Like Scarlett: Grieving with Hope after Miscarriage and Loss

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